Being forgetful is a challenge for me, but sometimes it is a blessing when it comes to forgiving others. Jesus teaches us that forgiveness is a continual choice, not a one-time deal. (Matthew 18:21-22) I have learned that it’s important to forgive the offense of a memory every time it creeps back in, even if […]
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Setting healthy boundaries is essential for maintaining balance and well-being in our lives. Just as property lines define where one person’s land ends and another’s begins, boundaries set the limits of our personal space, emotions, time, and relationships, ensuring that each area has a healthy environment to flourish. The Bible provides guidance for how to
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Discovering love languages isn’t just a trend; it’s a real game-changer for building solid connections. As the Bible reveals that God is love (1 John 4:7-12), we should also unpack the unique ways we are called to show and receive love. I highly encourage you to build a strong understanding of what biblical love is
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Trust Issues If you’re human, you’ve probably been disappointed by another human. This is either due to someone’s lack of integrity or due to unmet expectations. Since God has perfect integrity, we can conclude that our disappointment is due to unmet expectations. Take a moment to reflect on your expectations of yourself, others, and God.
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Even when we start out with the right intentions, we accidentally hurt others with our words or actions. Sometimes, this is due to a misunderstanding, and other times, from inappropriate behavior that stems from a wrong mindset. Either way, it’s best to reach out to the affected person and communicate what went wrong. Sometimes it
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From giving compliments to celebrating achievements, there is no shortage of ideas to keep your relationship exciting and sweet. It only takes a bit of effort to strengthen and maintain your special bond. God has demonstrated the numerous ways we can express love to one another. (John 13:34-35, Galatians 5:13-14) There are ways to romance
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Emotional intelligence (EQ or EI) is the ability to perceive, express, and regulate emotions.1 The term emotional intelligence was created by two researchers, Peter Salavoy and John Mayer in their article “Emotional Intelligence” in the journal Imagination, Cognition, and Personality in 1990. It was later popularized by Dan Goleman in his 1995 book Emotional Intelligence.2
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The purpose of a gift can be to show appreciation, strengthen a relationship, or simply to help someone feel loved. Choosing the perfect gift can be a tricky task, but fear not! With a little planning and a dash of creativity, you can become a gift-giving maestro. Before you embark on your quest for the
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Disagreements are healthy and natural. (Proverbs 27:17) People with different opinions and perspectives provide a healthy challenge for us to grow, and complement our limited views. When we can respectfully discuss those differences, we build stronger relationships and better communication skills. Decide If It’s Worth It Identify if it’s worthwhile to bring up a topic
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A present doesn’t always need a card but if you’re going to include one, why not make it meaningful? Sharing a fun or heartwarming note can brighten someone’s day. When we are careful with our words, we can make a positive impact. “Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only
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